<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21723041</id><updated>2011-04-21T11:31:35.905-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Keepin' It Real Bookclub</title><subtitle type='html'></subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kirbookclub.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21723041/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kirbookclub.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>alu</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://mail.google.com/mail/photos/static/qzIajbw3tjMawjdycv72ryKIIKRJ7ImN8lB4Fz-J_3LIsvIL08j6Dl80yEHKPYV1'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>10</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21723041.post-116684483666228296</id><published>2006-12-22T19:17:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2006-12-22T19:33:56.673-08:00</updated><title type='text'>A Happy  Ho-liday</title><content type='html'>KIR is back, baby! After a long absence (damn those adult responsibilities) we were able to start KIR back up again with a special holiday edition. Our feature selection was "Naughty or Nice" by Eric Jerome Dickey.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21723041-116684483666228296?l=kirbookclub.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kirbookclub.blogspot.com/feeds/116684483666228296/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21723041&amp;postID=116684483666228296' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21723041/posts/default/116684483666228296'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21723041/posts/default/116684483666228296'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kirbookclub.blogspot.com/2006/12/happy-ho-liday.html' title='A Happy  Ho-liday'/><author><name>alu</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://mail.google.com/mail/photos/static/qzIajbw3tjMawjdycv72ryKIIKRJ7ImN8lB4Fz-J_3LIsvIL08j6Dl80yEHKPYV1'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21723041.post-115086572154725053</id><published>2006-06-20T21:53:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2006-06-27T09:33:32.656-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Stories That Haunt Us</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;W&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:georgia;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;hat are you afraid of? Global warming? Bird Flu? War? Snakes? Whether our fears are rational or irrational, of personal or large scale threats, we all get afraid. And I think most of us would agree that there are many things in our world to be afraid of. What happens to you when you get scared? Does your heart start pounding? Do your palms sweat? Does your digestive system go wacky? Not very pleasant symptoms, right? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:georgia;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;So why is fear such a popular element of our entertainment and literature? It seems like something people would avoid, rather than seek out. But fiction that specializes in scaring people—what we in the library world call the horror genre—is immensely popular. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;Horror dominates popular culture today, in movies, computer and role playing games, television, music, theater and fashion, as well as in books. This isn’t a new phenomenon. Aspects of horror have always been found in our storytelling, in legends and myths, in everything from fairytales to religious works&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: verdana;"&gt; As the Horror Writers Association points out on its website: “…the best selling book of all time, the Bible, could easily be labeled horror, for where else can you find fallen angels, demonic possessions, and an apocalypse absolutely terrifying in its majesty all in one volume?”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;This morning I am going to talk about what horror is, why it is popular, and perhaps most challengingly, why, if you don’t like horror, you should care. Let me back up a bit first and explain how this talk came to be. As I mentioned, I’m in the library ‘biz, and work as the Teen Services Librarian at the Brookdale Library in &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;st1:city  style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;st1:place&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;Brooklyn Center&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/st1:place&gt;&lt;/st1:city&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;. In March of this year, two co-workers and I presented a program in &lt;/span&gt;&lt;st1:city  style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;st1:place&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;Boston&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/st1:place&gt;&lt;/st1:city&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt; on horror fiction and teen reading interests. After our talk, we were approached by an editor of School Library Journal, and an article based on our talk will be published soon in an upcoming issue. We presented our program and wrote the article because all three of us are horror fans, which is rather unusual in the library profession. Although they might not admit it publicly, librarians can be very judgmental about the public’s reading tastes. Most librarians like mysteries, but usually other popular genres, especially romance and horror, are regarded as rather trashy. Anyway, this talk is largely based on my previous work-related presentation and article. I figured most of the talk was already written, and that convincing skeptical UU’s that horror is interesting can’t be that much harder than persuading librarians, right?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Let me also spend a little more time in clarifying what I mean by the horror genre. Librarians can spend hours debating the finer points of fiction classification, but for today I’m defining horror as: “&lt;/span&gt;&lt;i  style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;fiction that creates and explores experiences of fear, dread, apprehension, aversion, and other “dark” emotions.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Horror can come from an external threat such as a monster or killer, but characters may also deal with the horror of internal demons such as guilt and anger.” &lt;/i&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Since the experience of horror is very subjective, there are few hard and fast rules about what makes something horror.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Speaking of subjectivity, now seems like a good time to confess a few things. While I love the horror genre, my tolerance for being scared is quite low. Actually, I'm a big wimp. While I can watch and enjoy most horror films, I pay for it later. Think of it as a horror hangover. I saw "Nightmare on &lt;/span&gt;&lt;st1:street style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;st1:address&gt;Elm Street&lt;/st1:address&gt;&lt;/st1:street&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;" in 1986 and it still scares me. When "The Exorcist" was rereleased a few years ago, the tv ads for it creeped me out so much that I couldn't go down in the basement alone for weeks. I don't actually believe in the existence of ghosts or Satan, so I can't rationally explain why these ideas scare me so much. I'm just very sensitve to being freaked out, which can be both a good and a bad thing. Practically speaking, it means Chad has pretty strict rules about what horror movies I'm allowed to watch, because he doesn't want me to have nightmares and wake him up.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;       &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Elements of horror frequently lurk in other genres such as mysteries, romances, thrillers, and general fiction.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Most horror fiction contains supernatural elements, but sometimes the threat may be from a very realistic killer. It’s helpful to keep in mind that there are many books with supernatural characters that aren’t really scary. The centrality of the emotion of horror is the defining quality of this fiction, not the subject, characters or setting.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b style=""&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Horror&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt; encompasses a wide variety of story types, or subgenres, to use more librarian lingo. &lt;span style=""&gt; &lt;/span&gt;Let’s look now at some of the most popular ones.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Vampires&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt; remain a perennial favorite, perhaps because the sexy and romantic anti-hero/outsider character of the vampire is so appealing. The Goth subculture, popular with some teens, can be linked to a fascination with vampires. Vampire fiction often explores themes of sexuality and mortality.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Werewolves&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt; and other &lt;b&gt;shape shifters&lt;/b&gt; experience powerful and terrifying transformations, and frequently struggle with balancing their opposing human and animal natures. Shape shifting is a wonderful metaphor for the struggle to control the “monster” that lurks within, and for the adolescent journey into the adult world. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;b style=""&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b style=""&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Dark Fantasy&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt; uses characters from traditional fantasy such as fairies and elves, but has a bleaker, scarier feel.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Fantastic creatures or powers often interact with our modern mundane world to gruesome effect. &lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b style=""&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ghost&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt; stories feature some type of encounter with the spirits of the dead. Ghosts frequently need to avenge a wrong or to complete unfinished business before they can rest. Related to this, paranormal fiction focuses on characters with psychic powers such as the ability to speak with the dead or sense other worlds.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;These stories explore concepts about death and the possibility of an afterlife, and the remarkable potential of the human mind. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In the &lt;b style=""&gt;scary science&lt;/b&gt; subgenre, a doctor, scientist, government agency, or some other powerful authority figure must be stopped from corrupting the natural order.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Fans enjoy these stories because they prey upon plausible fears about technology and science. They tend to appeal to readers who like more realistic fiction.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Magic-makers&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt; such as witches, warlocks or sorcerers &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;use magic to control the elements of nature.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Stories featuring magic-makers often focus on the battle between good vs. evil and the moral ambiguities of power. &lt;b style=""&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Psycho killers&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt; may threaten heroes in very t&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;angible, physical ways in this subgenre closely related to true crime.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Readers may even enter the terrifying mind of a murderer. Consider these novels to be the equivalent of a “slasher” film.&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ancient evil&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt; or mythic beings can be especially disturbing adversaries because they are immensely powerful and totally unfathomable to humans.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;Mysterious entities such as gods, demons and angels populate this subgenre.&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;H.P. Lovecraft’s classic writings about the Cthulhu mythos tap into these archetypes.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b style=""&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Now that we are all at least a little familiar about what is going on in the world of horror, let’s look at what makes it appealing to readers. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;People enjoy horror for many of the same reasons that people read fantasy fiction, such as the works of J.R.R. Tolkien. Like all so-called speculative fiction, which includes fantasy and science fiction, horror is all about opening yourself up to possibility. &lt;span style=""&gt; &lt;/span&gt;But unlike most fantasy, horror usually has a contemporary, realistic setting. For example, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;st1:country-region  style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;st1:place&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;Chad&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/st1:place&gt;&lt;/st1:country-region&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt; loves reading traditional fantasy. He’s perfectly comfortable with books about people wearing tunics, and he takes it as a good sign if a book has a map on the inside cover. I, on the other hand, much prefer stories where fantastic things happen in our world. I love the idea that there is magic and mayhem lurking just beyond our everyday perception. I like reading about characters who dress more or less like I do, (jeans or leather miniskirts, but no tunics), and I hate maps whatever reality they portray.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Perhaps the most unique appeal of reading horror is that being scared, and sometimes grossed-out, can be fun. Reading a horror books or watching a horror movie can be a powerful emotional experience. Although we usually think of it as a "negative" emotion, fear is exciting. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;st1:city  style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;st1:place&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;Reading&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/st1:place&gt;&lt;/st1:city&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt; horror is rarely boring.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;As an added bonus, parents, teachers, librarians, and even UUs, often disapprove of horror, which makes it even more appealing to teens and other rebellious types.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Reading or watching horror can also be empowering. Horror explores many of the fears we all face daily, either literally or figuratively, and allows us to vicariously deal with them. This is one reason horror is so popular with teens, as adolescence especially is often a time of anxiety and fear. Teens may feel on the brink of a new and frightening world, namely adulthood. Horror fiction taps into this by featuring teen protagonists who often discover new powers or encounter danger when puberty hits.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;And there is more to being grossed-out than just the thrill factor. In their book &lt;/span&gt;&lt;u style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;The Attention Economy&lt;/u&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;, authors Thomas Davenport and John Beck argue people are naturally more drawn to things that they either find physically beautiful or repulsive. Being attracted to beauty seems obvious, but think about how most of us are attracted to blood and guts, even if we don’t want to be or don’t morally approve of what we are seeing. Horror is often criticized for being too violent, and it is an important issue to consider. There is a huge range in the level of violence that is found in horror. Some horror has barely any blood or violence, while some is extremely graphic. Is being exposed to such graphic displays of violence somehow harmful? Maybe, but I have yet to see any research that supports that theory. I think it comes down to a question of personal taste, moderation, and common sense. Just like anything that is taken to extremes, watching slasher movies 24 hours a day may not be the healthiest thing in the world, but most fans of gory horror are probably not going to turn into psycho killers. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;The horror genre makes the most of our fascination with the repulsive, and often with beauty, too. The classic &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;st1:place  style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;Hollywood&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/st1:place&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt; vampire is a perfect example of this: the suave, sexy, irresistibly handsome character who charms his victims, only turning into an ugly monster when he kills. In some horror, the experiences of beauty and revulsion are simultaneous. Skilled writers can make the violent death of a character both horrifying and sublime. This may be seen as a glorification of violence, and while that certainly does happen in horror, it’s also often a realistic and sophisticated understanding that beauty and horror are deeply intertwined. In our society we tend to like to clearly define things as “this” vs. “that,” but real life is often much more fluid. Back in my undergraduate days I learned how other religions celebrate a concept known as the “coincidence of opposites,” which means that two seemingly mutually exclusive ideas, such as beauty and repulsion, are often both simultaneously true and real. &lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Along with exploring the subjectivity of beauty and ugliness, horror often explores the ambiguity of moral questions and the uncomfortable idea that concepts of good and evil often depend on perspective. Who are the heroes? Who are the villains? Who decides? In contemporary horror, traditional bad guys, such as vampires, ghosts, and witches, are often heroic. Even when vampires and other monsters are characteristically monstrous, they are still sometimes sympathetic, and the reader is given a chance to see things from their perspective. Author Laurell K. Hamilton’s does a compelling job of exploring moral ambiguity in her popular series about vampire executioner Anita Blake. In the first book in the series, Anita sees the world in clear black and white terms. Vampires are evil, case closed. But as the series progresses, Anita finds herself in love with a powerful vampire, and as her own supernatural powers grow, she begins to question her way of seeing the world. Yes, Anita still encounters and kills many barbaric vampires, but she also battles human enemies who are just as monstrous.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;As I mentioned earlier, stories with ancient and mythic beings are often the most thought-provoking and frightening, because they deal with entities that aren’t simply immoral, but amoral. These stories wrestle with the age-old question of how do humans exist and find meaning in a universe that is fundamentally nonhuman?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p style="font-family: verdana;"&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Horror can satisfy our desire to impose meaning and order on the world by giving us a reality with clear rules. Figuring out those rules and contrasting them with the rules of our own world, or other works of fiction, can be great fun for horror fans. Even though in real life I don’t like most games because I’m too impatient to learn the rules, I enjoy reading a horror book and discovering how its reality works. For example, when I crack open a new vampire book, I’m full of questions. Will vampires in this world be destroyed by sunlight? How does one become a vampire? Are vampires able to have sex? Horror stories also often contain a mystery. Sometimes it’s a large scale mystery, such as how did werewolves evolve? Or sometimes it’s a personal mystery about a character, such as how did Spike, from “Buffy the Vampire Slayer,” become a vampire and why is his name Spike?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Obviously I enjoy horror, but let’s talk a little bit before I finish about why people who don’t like horror should be interested in horror, or at least not immediately dismiss it as meaningless. Horror frequently deals with big issues, like morality, sexuality, and mortality. These are spiritual questions. It’s no coincidence that horror often uses characters and settings that are mythic and folkloric. Vampires, werewolves, and ghosts have been around forever because, as a people, they speak to us. They interest us and make sense to us, even if it’s at a subconscious level we don’t really understand. Maybe as our religions get both more literal and less traditional, we need symbolic stories that have deep roots, yet also change with our times. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:verdana;"&gt;Perhaps the enduring popularity of horror also offers a lesson to Unitarian Universalists that we sometimes need religion that is scary, wild, and unpredictable. I think it’s wonderful that our religion is predominantly rational, peaceful, and gentle, but I think there is also a good reason why the Bible is both an effective religious text and a horror novel, and why many Hindus worship a frightening goddess such as Kali. Now I’m not advocating the implementation of blood sacrifice on Sunday mornings, but I think we should consider how we can deal with the scary side of life in emotionally satisfying and even entertaining ways. Another thing I remember learning during my undergraduate days is that Rudolf Otto proposed a very influential definition of religion as the experience of the holy. And by holy he didn’t mean morally good, but rather something that creates a deep and profound sense of wonder, awe, reverence and even fear. I’m not equating enjoying horror with a religious experience, but good horror can stir feelings of awesome, fearful wonder within us. So keep an open mind, maybe try to catch an episode or two of a Buffy rerun, and try to convince my husband that he should let me watch more horror, even if it does give me nightmares.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;o:p&gt;&lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;   &lt;p class="MsoNormal"  style="text-align: right;font-family:georgia;" align="right"&gt;&lt;b style=""&gt;&lt;span style=""&gt;&lt;o:p&gt; &lt;/o:p&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21723041-115086572154725053?l=kirbookclub.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kirbookclub.blogspot.com/feeds/115086572154725053/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21723041&amp;postID=115086572154725053' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21723041/posts/default/115086572154725053'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21723041/posts/default/115086572154725053'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kirbookclub.blogspot.com/2006/06/stories-that-haunt-us.html' title='Stories That Haunt Us'/><author><name>alu</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://mail.google.com/mail/photos/static/qzIajbw3tjMawjdycv72ryKIIKRJ7ImN8lB4Fz-J_3LIsvIL08j6Dl80yEHKPYV1'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21723041.post-114670393186893101</id><published>2006-05-03T17:34:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2006-05-03T17:53:31.266-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Embracing Our Inner Strippers</title><content type='html'>For our most recent "bookclub" a group of seven of us sexy sistahs took a private erotic dance class at a local dance studio. It even included a bit of pole dancing! I thought it was an amazing experience--very hard, (I was sore all weekend and the rest of the gals reported they were, too) but oh, so much fun! And as cliched as it sounds, it really was empowering (and very silly.) The studio was suprisingly classy and the instructor had great presence.&lt;br /&gt;Now, I'm not saying that stripping in general is empowering for its practioners...as our bookclub selection "G-Spot" by Noire painfully demonstrates! This was actually a rather well-written book (it's &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;not&lt;/span&gt; by an independent publisher like Urban Books) that was very intense and compelling. My only real complaint about it is that it was billed as "erotic." While there were some sexy scenes, there was also a lot of graphic violence, including gang rape and torture, that were very disturbing and definitely did not put me in the mood! My biggest question about the characters in the book was why Gino didn't make any attempt to try and help Juicy out of her extremely abusive relationship with his father. He didn't even really acknowledge the horrible danger she was in...what a schmuck. He also seemed to think he was a really moral, upright guy, but it didn't bother him at all to take his father's drug money or participate in the biz. I did think it was kind of funny that at the beginning of the story, Juicy thought her biggest problem was that she was sexually unsatisfied with G. Yes, I think sexual satisfaction is important, but I think I would be a little more concerned with being threatened and beaten!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21723041-114670393186893101?l=kirbookclub.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kirbookclub.blogspot.com/feeds/114670393186893101/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21723041&amp;postID=114670393186893101' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21723041/posts/default/114670393186893101'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21723041/posts/default/114670393186893101'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kirbookclub.blogspot.com/2006/05/embracing-our-inner-strippers.html' title='Embracing Our Inner Strippers'/><author><name>alu</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://mail.google.com/mail/photos/static/qzIajbw3tjMawjdycv72ryKIIKRJ7ImN8lB4Fz-J_3LIsvIL08j6Dl80yEHKPYV1'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21723041.post-114559384530753271</id><published>2006-04-20T21:00:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2006-04-20T21:32:46.636-07:00</updated><title type='text'>Discussion Questions for A Thug's Life</title><content type='html'>Apology: I read this book a long time ago and can't remember the names of any of the female characters. Hopefully someone can correct this!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ol&gt;   &lt;li&gt;Dayvon did horrible things to many people, yet was loving and generous to his sister. How can people act in such extreme and contradictory ways?&lt;/li&gt;   &lt;li&gt;Do you think Dayvon's sister ever felt troubled by taking money from Dayvon that she knew he made through drug dealing and murder? Should this have bothered her?&lt;/li&gt;   &lt;li&gt;Did you think anything in this book was shocking or upsetting?&lt;/li&gt;   &lt;li&gt;Why did Dayvon want to go straight? Did he feel guilty about his crimes, or was he just tired of the danger?&lt;/li&gt;   &lt;li&gt;What did you think of Dayvon's stripper's girlfriend? What were some of her admirable qualities? What were some of her faults?&lt;/li&gt;   &lt;li&gt;What will happen to Dayvon and his stripper girlfriend? Will they be happy? How will life be for her son? Will Dayvon be faithful, or will be start being sleeping around again?&lt;/li&gt;   &lt;li&gt;What did you think when Dayvon's Atlanta girlfriend found out she had HIV? Were you surprised that she didn't get it from Dayvon? What do you think will happen to her and the baby?&lt;/li&gt;   &lt;li&gt;Did you think this book was exciting? Sexy? Gripping?&lt;/li&gt; &lt;/ol&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21723041-114559384530753271?l=kirbookclub.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kirbookclub.blogspot.com/feeds/114559384530753271/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21723041&amp;postID=114559384530753271' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21723041/posts/default/114559384530753271'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21723041/posts/default/114559384530753271'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kirbookclub.blogspot.com/2006/04/discussion-questions-for-thugs-life.html' title='Discussion Questions for A Thug&apos;s Life'/><author><name>alu</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://mail.google.com/mail/photos/static/qzIajbw3tjMawjdycv72ryKIIKRJ7ImN8lB4Fz-J_3LIsvIL08j6Dl80yEHKPYV1'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21723041.post-114376181817193677</id><published>2006-03-30T15:35:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2006-03-30T15:36:58.170-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Urban Fiction Reading Lists</title><content type='html'>Thanks to Meg, here is a list of library sites to check out for Urban Fiction reading lists!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.lmxac.org/longbranch/urban_fiction.htm"&gt;http://www.lmxac.org/longbranch/urban_fiction.htm&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://cpl.org/readingroom.asp?key=%7B4AA4C9F1-E92F-47A2-B9EF-1B727E62884C%7D"&gt;http://cpl.org/readingroom.asp?key=%7B4AA4C9F1-E92F-47A2-B9EF-1B727E62884C%7D&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.mdlib.org/divisions/raig/urban/"&gt;http://www.mdlib.org/divisions/raig/urban/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://auburn-hills.lib.mi.us/Adult/Booklist/settings/Urban.htm"&gt;http://auburn-hills.lib.mi.us/Adult/Booklist/settings/Urban.htm&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21723041-114376181817193677?l=kirbookclub.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kirbookclub.blogspot.com/feeds/114376181817193677/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21723041&amp;postID=114376181817193677' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21723041/posts/default/114376181817193677'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21723041/posts/default/114376181817193677'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kirbookclub.blogspot.com/2006/03/urban-fiction-reading-lists.html' title='Urban Fiction Reading Lists'/><author><name>alu</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://mail.google.com/mail/photos/static/qzIajbw3tjMawjdycv72ryKIIKRJ7ImN8lB4Fz-J_3LIsvIL08j6Dl80yEHKPYV1'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21723041.post-114376166654258403</id><published>2006-03-30T15:19:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2006-03-30T15:34:26.556-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Flowers in the Attic Discussion Questions</title><content type='html'>Okay, the book club meeting was weeks ago, but here are some questions to ponder just for fun. Please post a reply if you are so inspired! (Have some Boone's Farm first for inspiration!)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;ol&gt;&lt;li&gt;Do you think it is realistic that the children stayed in the attic so long without trying to escape? Why or why not? What were their motivations?&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;What was their mother's original intentions when she first brought them to the attic? Did she always plan to hide them there for years? &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Did their mother ever love them? If so, how and why did her feelings change?&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;What did you think of the family's attitudes toward sexuality? Was it appropriate that Chris and Cathy saw each other naked in pre-attic times? &lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Did Chris suffer from an Oedipus complex?&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;What did you think of the incest incident? Was it realistic?&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;If you had to be locked up in an attic for years, what and who would you want to take with you?&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;Why is this book so popular with jr. high girls?&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;This book is often marketed as horror. Do you agree with that classification? Why?&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;What is your favorite white trash food? Beverage?&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ol&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21723041-114376166654258403?l=kirbookclub.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kirbookclub.blogspot.com/feeds/114376166654258403/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21723041&amp;postID=114376166654258403' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21723041/posts/default/114376166654258403'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21723041/posts/default/114376166654258403'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kirbookclub.blogspot.com/2006/03/flowers-in-attic-discussion-questions.html' title='Flowers in the Attic Discussion Questions'/><author><name>alu</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://mail.google.com/mail/photos/static/qzIajbw3tjMawjdycv72ryKIIKRJ7ImN8lB4Fz-J_3LIsvIL08j6Dl80yEHKPYV1'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21723041.post-114239958508860259</id><published>2006-03-14T20:54:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2006-03-14T21:14:52.846-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Boone's Farm In the Attic</title><content type='html'>For March we were Keepin' It Rural. B. was a most gracious host and served her small but enthusiastic group of guests Boone's Farm, Pizza Rolls, and Lil' Smokies. I have to say I was quite excited to have a chance to bring Cheese Whiz and potato chip sandwiches. (To answer the question that both my old man and B. asked, yes, these sandwiches really exist, and people really eat them!) Sadly, I wasn't able to find the right kind of round white bread for the sandwiches (it may only be available in rural Wisconsin) so had to make do with appetizer rye bread. I vow to all my KIR sistahs that I will do everything in my power to serve these delectable sandwiches at your upcoming bridal and baby showers, and funerals. W-Bo/Martha Stewart came through as usual with a yummy strawberry jello dish.&lt;br /&gt;Our book selection was "Flowers in the Attic." Somehow, I missed reading this classic as a 7th grade girl, but I must admit I enjoyed reading it and was totally sucked in. I did have a hard time buying that teens that old (12 &amp;amp; 14) would so easily submit to being locked in the attic (especially since when they did "escape," all they basically had to do was walk out the front door). But just the fact that I pondered this question so much demonstrates that I was hooked. I was surprised (okay, disappointed) that there was only one, completely non-graphic sex "scene." I'm a little surprised "Flowers" has become so popular and scandalous on just a teeny bit of incest. Actually, I thought there were a lot of incestuous undercurrents between Chris and his mom (serious Oedipus Complex, why else would he put up with her crap?) and Carrie and her dad.&lt;br /&gt;Well, if I had infinite time, I would probably read the whole series. See, there is a reason for mortality (it forces me to prioritize my reading).&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21723041-114239958508860259?l=kirbookclub.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kirbookclub.blogspot.com/feeds/114239958508860259/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21723041&amp;postID=114239958508860259' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21723041/posts/default/114239958508860259'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21723041/posts/default/114239958508860259'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kirbookclub.blogspot.com/2006/03/boones-farm-in-attic.html' title='Boone&apos;s Farm In the Attic'/><author><name>alu</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://mail.google.com/mail/photos/static/qzIajbw3tjMawjdycv72ryKIIKRJ7ImN8lB4Fz-J_3LIsvIL08j6Dl80yEHKPYV1'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21723041.post-114203168962700928</id><published>2006-03-10T14:29:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2006-03-10T15:05:41.963-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Shame on Zane</title><content type='html'>Our second book was "Shame On It All" by Zane. Now Zane is wildly popular and her books are known for being steamy, so I was very disappointed to discover "SOIA" was extremely NOT hot. Yes, Zane made frequent use of the words "pussy" and "dick," but that isn't enough to make something erotic. In fact, much of SOIA was downright gross (why is Zane obsessed with defecation? Sure, it's a natural human process, but that doesn't mean anyone wants to read about it) and would actually kill, rather than create, a sexy mood. SOIA was also really weird, not in a good way, but in a "Why are there so many horny midgets running around?" way. And I hate to sound over-sensitive, but I was actually a little offended on the behalf of midgets, poor rural people, fat people, and others Zane gratutiously mocked. Being mean and witty is one thing, but just being mean is lame. One the plus side, SOIA was memorable and entertaining, with some wildly funny lines.&lt;br /&gt;Our lovely hostess, Sue, treated us to yummy and sumptuous fondue in honor of Valentine's Day.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21723041-114203168962700928?l=kirbookclub.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kirbookclub.blogspot.com/feeds/114203168962700928/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21723041&amp;postID=114203168962700928' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21723041/posts/default/114203168962700928'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21723041/posts/default/114203168962700928'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kirbookclub.blogspot.com/2006/03/shame-on-zane.html' title='Shame on Zane'/><author><name>alu</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://mail.google.com/mail/photos/static/qzIajbw3tjMawjdycv72ryKIIKRJ7ImN8lB4Fz-J_3LIsvIL08j6Dl80yEHKPYV1'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21723041.post-113883133964085579</id><published>2006-02-01T13:54:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2006-02-01T14:02:19.640-08:00</updated><title type='text'>Check out the Montel Williams Show</title><content type='html'>Tomorrow's show is called "Love Behind Bars." Plus, yesterday's show, "Girls Just Want to Have Fun," featured Passion Parties (I get e-mails from the guest who was representing Passion Parties, so I feel special) and pole dancing! We are so with it!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21723041-113883133964085579?l=kirbookclub.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kirbookclub.blogspot.com/feeds/113883133964085579/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21723041&amp;postID=113883133964085579' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21723041/posts/default/113883133964085579'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21723041/posts/default/113883133964085579'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kirbookclub.blogspot.com/2006/02/check-out-montel-williams-show.html' title='Check out the Montel Williams Show'/><author><name>alu</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://mail.google.com/mail/photos/static/qzIajbw3tjMawjdycv72ryKIIKRJ7ImN8lB4Fz-J_3LIsvIL08j6Dl80yEHKPYV1'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21723041.post-113865720204255225</id><published>2006-01-30T13:35:00.000-08:00</published><updated>2006-02-01T13:53:17.390-08:00</updated><title type='text'>The Joy of Mac 'n Cheese</title><content type='html'>Our first Keepin' It Real book club got off to a tight start with our discussion of "Baby Momma Drama" by Carl Webber. W-Bo was a fabulous hostess and treated us to heavenly mac 'n cheese. She used Patti Labelle's recipe, and I think Big Momma would have been proud!&lt;br /&gt;We had a lively and insightful discussion. We talked a lot about the characters, and the majority opinion was that Jasmine was really annoying. Most of us liked her sister, Stephanie, better. Although Stephanie was a ho and made bad choices, she was more honest with herself (although clearly not honest with Travis). At the end of the book, Stephanie accepted the consequences of her actions and let Travis go without starting any baby momma drama. Our favorite male character was Dylan. He seemed liked a responsible, sweet man with a big johnson.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21723041-113865720204255225?l=kirbookclub.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://kirbookclub.blogspot.com/feeds/113865720204255225/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21723041&amp;postID=113865720204255225' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21723041/posts/default/113865720204255225'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21723041/posts/default/113865720204255225'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://kirbookclub.blogspot.com/2006/01/joy-of-mac-n-cheese.html' title='The Joy of Mac &apos;n Cheese'/><author><name>alu</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='http://mail.google.com/mail/photos/static/qzIajbw3tjMawjdycv72ryKIIKRJ7ImN8lB4Fz-J_3LIsvIL08j6Dl80yEHKPYV1'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry></feed>
